Second annual Lights of Love Memorial held Nov. 21 ‘a beautiful evening’

By Michael Riley

Local Journalism Initiative Reporter

Hospice North Hastings held its second annual winter wonderland at their Hospice house at 27 Bridge Street North called Lights of Love Memorial on Nov. 29. The event gave local residents the opportunity to honour and remember loved ones who have passed on by purchasing a light by donation to put on six trees. It all took place during November, which coincided with National Hospice and Palliative Care Month. Stacy Pitts with Hospice North Hastings, comments on how the event went on Nov. 21.

Hospice North Hastings is a four-bed residential hospice in Bancroft, fully staffed with Registered Practical Nurses, PSWs and a grief and bereavement counsellor. Executive Director Keitha McNeil and Medical Director Dr. Micayla Ahearn support the staff. The goal of hospice is to provide end of life care while accommodating any final wishes the patient may have. These have included weddings, birthday parties, and final visits from the patient's pet.

Hospice, whose motto is “caring where there is no curing” is an extension of the health care system, and they're there to support patients at the end of their lives and to help families and loved ones get through this very difficult time. Although Hospice is partially funded by the Ontario government, they rely heavily on the local community.

Pitts told Bancroft This Week that Hospice North Hastings and its dedicated team are extending a heartfelt thank you to the community for the overwhelming support shown during the second annual Lights of Love Memorial.

“The event, held to honour and remember loved ones, saw a touching

addition this year, a slideshow featuring photos and names submitted by families and friends. Six beautifully lit trees stood as symbols of remembrance, each light representing love, loss, and cherished memories. Hospice North Hastings expresses deep appreciation for every donation, every attendee, and every act of kindness that helped make the memorial meaningful. We value each donation, we value everyone who was able to attend, we value the love and support shared by many,” she says.

Pitts says that a quote from Albert Einstein served as a guiding reflection for the evening, where he said;

“Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value. Being valuable means doing things that help others and make the world a better place. It's not just about being the best, but about making a difference.”

Pitts says that the Joyful Bell Ringers did the music again for the event this year, and the trees came from Stan Blank, and were all purchased and donated by individuals for the event.

“There were 130 loved ones honoured this year and we netted a little over $5,600,” she says.

Pitt says that for Hospice North Hastings, “the Lights of Love Memorial continues to be a testament to that very spirit, thank you to all who helped make a difference.”

The Hospice North Hastings team also wanted to thank all of the local businesses that donated to the memorial.

“We wouldn't be here without the support of our entire community and surrounding areas.”